Have sex with a hundred men in 24 hours. This is what a 23-year-old girl has done, with thousands of followers on the OnlyFans network. The media has sold it as a “challenge.” And the response of many comments was: “what difference does it make if she likes it?” Well, let’s listen to her, because to record such a “feat” they have recorded a documentary on the matter, which already has more than two million views.
And what happens in that documentary after that “encounter” with a hundred men in 24 hours? To begin with, he says that it was more intense than he expected and, from that moment on, he bursts into tears. Then he says that “downstairs” he doesn’t have so much discomfort but that his eyes are very bad, because everyone has “unloaded” not on his face but on them. That is to say, the agreement that they signed with rules for the meeting was not respected. The journalist and cameraman who records everything feel like vomiting when they enter the bedroom because of the unbearable smell it gives off. And she says that she remembered that she was much more excited the days before to fulfill her fantasy, but the feeling she got after the “challenge” was sadness.
Because? At first, she says it’s because she felt pressured by them. That sometimes they told her: “Aren’t you going to let me finish if you made me come from so far?” But then, she confesses that she felt “robotic” and that she had to dissociate and disconnect emotionally completely, because it was not like “normal sex.” “That’s why she admitted that out of the hundred men she only remembered the faces of about seven. And she also admits that she doesn’t know how to explain why, but she doesn’t want to recommend it to anyone, because it’s not for “weak girls.” which is to be like “a prostitute.” Even so, the journalist says goodbye a few days later, in this young woman’s OnlyFans profile, it appears that she proposes a new challenge: having a thousand sexual relations in 24 hours.
Some questioned how she could have done that. And I respond with three details. One of the attendees is his mother and other family members. Two, let’s better ask how a hundred guys stood in line and paid for that, coming from far away. Of course, then one remembers the Gisele Pelicot case. If fifty creeps had no remorse in raping a woman drugged by her husband, imagine when they consider it a “service” from Only fans. And three. If all the messages that women receive are that OnlyFans is wonderful, that being a prostitute is empowering, that you are rich, that this is a normal job and that if you don’t fuck dozens of guys you are repressed and a nun or, as she says , a “weak woman.” How not to fall into the trap?
And well, since I know that some will already comment on it, I’ll go ahead and respond. There will be those who will say again that if she likes what we are doing by cutting off her freedom, or that if she wants to repeat, then it shows that she will have enjoyed it. Of course, if no one stops it here, like if you want to jump from a plane without a parachute. The proof is that he has done it. Everyone whatever they want.
But three more things. One, be careful with saying that you like to “repeat” because every day hundreds of prostitutes in this country repeat being exploited and they don’t feel like doing anything. And hundreds of women continue with their abusers and repeat. Not because they enjoy it. Both of them stay and repeat because they don’t know how to get out of there. Two. I suppose we also like to eat and if we see someone who eats one hundred kilos of potatoes and twenty-five liters of horchata in 24 hours, we warn them that it is crazy, that their stomach is going to burst and that it will have consequences on their physical health. and mental. There are tastes for all colors, and there are people who even enjoy torture. But from there to normalizing and selling it as a wonder and exploration of sexuality for us, it doesn’t work. And three. If it’s so cool, why don’t you do it? Why do you miss out on so much enjoyment and thus discover your sexuality, as you say with it?
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Meanwhile, this “feat” makes something clear to us. That OnlyFans can be your prelude to prostitution, that they say you control and you don’t, that this has nothing to do with “normal sex”, that there are always plenty of whores, that the patriarchy of consent works like a charm or that It’s obvious why feminists bother. And the clearest thing of all and that ends up throwing overboard the defenders of this: that if your mind dissociates and does not remember it is because you do not enjoy it no matter how much you smile. You dissociate because you are experiencing an extreme situation that exceeds your psychological resources to cope with it. Because the exceptional, the emotional impact, the violence, the dread, the tension and the pain of trauma overcome you. Because we are women. We are human. No robots, machines or waste containers.
