“They were playing in the woods. The oldest, 14, asked my 9-year-old son and another 8-year-old boy to give him oral sex until he came.”the distraught mother says.My son told me that he just accepted the kisses and the little one gave him oral sex! I was treated to details of the hair, the white liquid, the size of the penis, etc. Needless to say, I’m sick of it.”
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But the revelation does not stop there.The worst part is that he admitted to me that it’s not the first time and that the 8-year-old does it regularly for the 14-year-old!”continues the mother. “This time, he didn’t want to because he didn’t want to betray me. I had broached the subject with him because there have been similar events in the family. I had told him that he should talk to me about it without fear if it happened to him and that I wouldn’t be ruined. He had the courage to tell me.”
Complaint to the police
The teenager is a recent boyfriend, the family moved in a few months ago. By letting her son play with him, the mother did not expect it to take this turn.He often came to play at home and even stayed to sleep a few times. I dare not imagine what happened. In any case, I will not open the door to him again if he comes back.”she reacts. “We all played doctor a bit when we were little, but when it goes into such detail… The kid is 14, he is well aware of the facts!”
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What could push such young minors to such behavior? Carine Duray-Parmentier gives some clues.At 13-14 years old, we have a better understanding of the norms but some may have problems and present behavioral disorders that can be explained by the influence of the family environment (saw porn films). It may be a trauma (victim of abuse) and to understand, he tends to repeat the act. A problem of power and control can also be an explanation”says the family and systemic psychotherapist.
The mother went to file a complaint with the police on Friday, who will be responsible for informing the parents of the other 8-year-old child.It took me a while to realize and accept it, but it was rape. The age difference also convinced me to take action.”she confides. Even though her son seems fine and not in shock, he sees a psychologist.
As a reminder, similar events occurred at the Cardinal Mercier college in Braine-l’Alleud. “Thanks to the press, we reveal a lot more, but there are just as many sexual problems as before.”believes Carine Duray-Parmentier.
