These excellent friends that you met thanks to their presence on YouTube a few years ago, Marina Bastarache et PO Beaudoinwere on the podcast Datestablewhere they talked about their friendships as well as their love lives.
At one point, PO Beaudoin said that one of the only things he reproaches his lover, whom he also considers his friend, is that he is not very good at reassuring him.
A situation that Marina understands very well, because it is a fault that Lou-Pascal Tremblay would also own!
“(…) I experience the same thing with Lou. I sometimes need to be reassured, like anyone else (…) Lou really has very, very good qualities, but he is not reassuring and he is not warm when you need someone to give you a hug,” she says, insisting on the fact that it still has a range of other qualities.
“(…) He knows that, he’s not good, crap, he’s not good! But, on another level of not good!”, she says, making her friend react who points out that at least, Lou-Pascal is aware that this is not his strength.
“At one point I was crying about a situation (…) in front of Louactually cry. I was like: Oh my God, such a person, whom I know well, who is a friend, said…I will say anything: said I’m not smartlet’s say (…),” she gives as an example, making sure to reiterate that this is not what really happened.
In this fictional situation, she puts into context that this person’s words really hurt her and she wonders if everyone around her thinks she is “thick.”
«Et Louhe will listen to me and he will do: Well you know, it’s true that sometimes you make calls that are a bit stupid. He would be the type to say that to me, and I’m crying that I’m not intelligent and you could say that to me!”, she continues.
“I just looked at it and went: Are you kidding me? I’m crying in front of you (…) I just need you to come: Come here my darling (…) at worst you say nothing and you flatter me you say: It’s going to be fine, I’m here (…) I just need this!”, she says.
However, Marina claims that her lover, Lou-Pascaltold him that he was working on this aspect of himself so that he could improve.
“(…) I don’t know if we’re going to get there one day (…),” says Marinaobviously not finding the situation catastrophic either!
We suppose that her darling is picking up on many aspects!
Is this a defect that your spouse has?
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