DISCOVERY – The first sexual intercourse is often accompanied by many questions. How to approach this unique experience? Here are all the answers
The first sexual intercourse, often tinged with mystery and apprehension, marks a turning point in life. Although the majority of young people in France experience it around the age of 17, there is no ideal age. What really matters is to be in harmony with yourself, mentally and physically ready. To approach this moment with serenity, here is some advice to follow.
Don’t hesitate to say no
Your desire is your best guide. Pleasure is not given as a gift, it is experienced because you want it. However, saying “no” can sometimes seem difficult. It is by listening to yourself that you will learn to assert yourself. If the desire for a first tender gesture or a rapprochement arises, let yourself be carried away by the moment.
If you feel the need for more time, let things take their course without forcing. Respecting your limits is essential, never agree to comply with practices that do not suit you, just to avoid disappointing.
Putting communication first
Communicating with your partner is crucial, even if it can be tricky. Before getting intimate, it’s important to think about how you want things to go. Anticipating and expressing your expectations helps protect you emotionally.(…) - 20minutes
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