On March 8, 2025 International women’s day has just bowed out, leaving the month of May 2025 in celebration of Mother’s Day, in the hope of obtaining one day, of the International Day of the Girl. The woman, yes the woman! That from whom man came out according to African thought unlike Western thought from which the woman would have come out of the ablation of one of the coasts of man !!!
We are in a society that feminizes more. Everything is set up Today so that women remain and remains single: advertisements, speeches, television, feminism campaigns, gender approach, social networks and all the aids and competitions put in place so that women remain and remain single. It is for this reason today, you notice more and more women who have largely exceeded the age of getting married and who are alone, women who have children and who are alone, single mothers! Getting married today as a woman seems to be a disadvantage for the fairer sex, because the woman with her status as a bachelor is a guarantee for the accession to lasting financial resources. Now, in African thought, women is a guarantee of development because she is the matrix of integral education, which she instills in children, development levers! A married woman in Africa is a happiness for the home because this home is based on her who, moreover, knows how to manage it that anyone. It is for this reason that in black Africa, the woman deserves respect and admiration of the whole community and the whole society. Because, it is it which is the power of transmission of divine principles, cosmic laws and societal values to children, levers for the development of the whole nation. On the other hand, in Western society, the woman who is alone and single has more advantages than the one who is married and in a relationship so sometimes in couples, the woman hides her husband to declare herself to the government that she lives alone; Single, although the husband is there. She adopts this behavior only to have interests, because we are in an extra-materialist society which promotes the condition of a single woman rather than that of a married woman. The West gives advantages, even bonuses when the woman is alone and not with a man. Well, she has all the advantages as she is single! The woman under these conditions, therefore has an interest in her guy hiding because when he hides, she has small advantages. So the West puts all the advantages before to make these women understand that they would be better alone rather than married. Well: the divorced women’s festival sets out, the business of loneliness grows in sound mode, the company of meeting applications swarm and many women are finally single under these conditions. It is thus the dangers of excessive feminization today which unfortunately tends its tentacles in black Africa by mimicry of the vices of the West!
Feminism has been created for the simple purpose of receiving many more taxes than planned because all allowances for the benefit of these women are subject to taxes. Feminism has nothing to have with the beauty of women or with love for female gent even less improving the conditions of women. It is a system whose purpose is to make money not to protect women as they are made to believe; But what matters is money. It is a system based on the capitalist with its disastrous consequences.
Hunting her husband from the house to be able to benefit from celibacy allowances, is a derisory satisfaction which unfortunately puts the life of the woman in danger especially since these allowances do not even allow her to afford a luxury car. In addition, a child who grows outside the paternal figure is a real danger to society. Today there are many young men who are locked up and languish in prisons simply because they have not had father’s bearings. The mother alone cannot be at the same time: mom and dad! This speech: I am the mother and at the same time the dad is exceeded and no longer moves anyone; But rather indicates the testimony of an ill -assimilated emancipation. Because the education of a child raised by a divorced mother is mainly based on pain and negative emotions which turn into reproaches, anger and one -way stories. Rather than education, it becomes a silent settling of accounts on the child. Each argument becomes a weapon, each absence becomes a trial and each memory becomes a burden on the child who grows up with the impression that his father is bad, that everything is the fault of his father who did nothing well. At each problem, it is his father that we accuse, with each difficulty, it is his irresponsibility and absenteeism that we recall and it is in this scheme that the child grows by subliminally hating his father without understanding the valid reason. We make him carry a boubou which is not his. We give him anger that is not his, he is mowed with wool that is not his. And by ricochet this child will carry the image of bad father all his life and will project it on all men and authorities of her community. But when, it is the divorced father who raises a child after separation, he does not use his emotional injuries to dirty the mother, his ex -wife. An injured father does not teach revenge, a destroyed father, does not transpose his emotional failure over his child. He teaches respect for women even the one with whom he is no longer in a relationship. If the child asks him why he is no longer in a relationship with your mother, he replies that between adults the stories are often complicated, and that did not work with your mother, but that her mother remains his mother, she deserves her respect and her love as her child. The father never builds his child on hatred, he built him on dignity even when his heart is broken; Even when he has every reason to complain, the father still teaches loyalty and knows that the wound is no excuse to dirty the other, his ex -wife. And this is where everything is played out because a child who learns to respect despite the pain is an adult in the making who is treated without destroying himself.
-In a general framework, the education of the child with regard to the divorced mother is based on negative emotions most often then the education of the child with regard to the divorced father is based on reason. So let’s pay attention to the flattering bonuses of incitement to the celibacy of women, the so -called so -called emancipation of women and excessive feminism in order to restore joy to our daughters, our women and our mothers. Let us rethink our society in the impregnation of our African references of references if we want a sustainable family tomorrow in peace and happiness.
Georges Cocou Aristide Azande
President of the Universal School of Applied Spirituality
