Amir did not take his father as a model to raise his children.
The singer of I searched came with a large franchise in the Boum Boum show, on YouTube. Referring to many subjects, Amir said what a father meant for him.
And, first of all, it is not to follow the paternal model, an often absent and distant father. “My father was only half of the time. In the half where he was there, I think that his modesty and his way of being as a dad, did not allow him to fully get involved. I think that even if he had been there at full time, he is a kind of father a little distant, “reveals the quarantine before adding:” It’s a cultural question “.
And to explain, without resentment: “My dad is as he is. I think it’s part of a generation. It is robe, there is a way of being. In the perception of the virility of the time, the dad was less sensitive, less cuddly. I accept it, there is no problem ”.
But Amir wants to be another style of dad. “I don’t want to be like that with my kids. I don’t want to live with the feeling of having missed something from their lives. »»
In February, the dad “amazed” welcomed their third child with his wife, a little boy. A moment of “pure light and joy”, as the artist had described. However, if Amir affirms, in this interview with boom boom, that he wants to fully experience the pleasures and responsibilities of paternity, he did not hide that it was not necessarily easy. Especially since it generates guilt. “I happened to feel guilty, obviously,” said the singer of the party. And the only thing that reduces this guilt is if opposite, we have a family or a partner says: “Everything is fine, I’m happy and so much the better that it goes well”. »»
However, even if Lital is this partner, Amir wants to invest in his role as father, and he specifies: “I also need to have my place as a father and my place as an educator, to feel a home”.
To best maintain a family balance, it is necessary to assume its responsibilities, underlines the singer. Juggling between tours and being present as much as possible from his family asks for the organization … and some small sacrifices. “It is a work that is more concrete, which is the organization of his life, his daily life, to be able to be there a lot there and not to flee all the time, on the pretext that we are expected in Lyon or Bordeaux,” he adds.
Thus Amir takes time on his tour nights to reduce his periods of absence. “I prefer not to sleep three nights and make van trips, to make the thing more condensed, more effective and have more time with my family,” says the one who also explains: “There are things that can be done from afar, or condensed”.
The main thing, for Amir, is not to miss the precious moments of the stages of children’s life.
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