These days, the notion of fidelity in a relationship is often debated. Faced with new technologies and means of virtual communication, it becomes difficult to defend the boundaries that separate an innocent attitude from real infidelity. This is where the concept of microcheating comes in, an ambiguous behavior that sows trouble and could end your relationship if you’re not careful.
What is microcheating?
First of all, it is important to understand what is meant by micro-cheating. “Cheating” in English means to deceive. We can then speak of a form of infidelity, but most often without sexual activity. We’re more into a little flirting, where we interact with someone other than our partner, we simper, we let ourselves be flattered…
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This term actually refers to a fairly wide range of behaviors which, taken individually, might not seem serious nor constitute a betrayal of one’s partner. On the other hand, when they develop over time, these small differences can become insidious and call into question the solidity of a romantic relationship.
Signs of microcheating
Microcheating can take different formsranging from the most subtle to the most visible:
- Communicate regularly with someone outside the couple on social networks or by message.
- Being too concerned about someone else’s appearance.
- Maintain conversations with romantic or sexual connotations without taking action.
- Try to hide certain exchanges from your partner.
- Openly comparing your spouse to other people.
If you notice some of these signs in your partner, they may be dangerously flirting with microcheating.
An illness difficult to detect, but which weighs on the couple
The main problem with microcheating is that it is not not always easy to detect. The behavior in question often concerns the private sphere and can be hidden behind harmless excuses such as humor, friendly complicity or even the need to confide in a third person.
Distrust sets in
However, this discretion does not prevent microcheating from having a negative impact on the romantic relationship. With time, certain habits can generate suspicion, jealousy and incomprehension. Partners may then question their own behavior, wondering if they are sufficiently invested in the relationship. Ultimately, the accumulation of small betrayals can cause real discomfort within the couple. In short, microcheating acts as a sneaky poison for mutual trust.
We start by becoming aware of the problem and adopting a proactive attitude to prevent microcheating from taking hold. Here are some ways to combat this scourge:
Establish an open dialogue
There is no need to constantly monitor your partner or engage in endless interrogations: the important thing above all is to be able to approach sensitive subjects with complete honesty and transparency. A caring discussion around each person’s practices can make it possible to detect and avoid certain critical situations.
Define boundaries
Every couple has their own standards and valueswhich must be decided by consensus between the two partners. Clarify respective expectations regarding loyalty and determining together which actions are unacceptable strengthens the strength of the romantic contract.
Focus on your relationship
Microcheating often finds its roots in discomfort within the couple itself. You must remain vigilant and maintain your relationship, promote complicity and communication with your partner, in order to avoid external temptations.
Forgive, but not forget
If it happens that your partner crosses the limit of microcheating, you must know how to show understanding. Dwelling on resentment and reproaches only risks exacerbating tensions within the couple. However, this does not mean that we should turn a blind eye to these incidents: remaining alert to the warning signs will help prevent their recurrence.
A threat not to be taken lightly
Ultimately, microcheating represents a real challenge for today’s couples. If, on the surface, these deviations may seem harmless compared to classic infidelity, they nevertheless express a certain fragility in romantic commitment. This is why it is essential to remain vigilant in the face of this phenomenon and to do everything possible to protect the balance of your relationship.
