In a quarter of an hour, this method promises to manage latent conflicts with your other half and re-establish dialogue. What does this rule recommended by an expert consist of?
“Some arguments are necessary […] as long as they are benevolent. You have to verbalize your emotions, your needs, your values. It all depends on the tone you use, the words you use,” therapist Pascal Anger told us in an article on the merits of couples’ arguments. This is what the 5-5-5 technique, identified by “Cosmopolitan” and presented in the book “The Beauty of Conflict for Couples” by Susan Clarke and CrisMarie Campbell, attempts to prove. This British couple, both relationship experts, explains to NBC News how this rule allowed them to resolve their conflicts during a period of uncertainty. Instead of launching into an argument without a framework that can quickly spiral out of control, the barriers set by 5-5-5 allow each partner to express themselves, to be listened to, to learn to manage tensions and, finally, to dialogue.
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How does 5-5-5 work?
The method is simple and only takes fifteen minutes. If you feel discomfort in your relationship or something is bothering you, suggest to your partner that you practice this technique every day. It’s like couples therapy at home.
Three parts are enough to address tensions in the best possible way. During the first five minutes, one of the partners expresses his or her feelings,…
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