“Over the last nine months, I have had zero orgasms” or the throes of “dating” fatigue

“Over the last nine months, I have had zero orgasms” or the throes of “dating” fatigue
“Over the last nine months, I have had zero orgasms” or the throes of “dating” fatigue

Published on May 26, 2024 at 7:09 p.m. / Modified on May 26, 2024 at 7:18 p.m.

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We often talk about professional burnout and even parental burnout, but it seems that we can also suffer from dating burnout. That is to say a form of exhaustion or great weariness with regard to the use of dating applications, because of the feeling of romantic or sexual consumerism, out of boredom with the repetition of the same scenario or because of the emotional roller coaster, between excitement and disappointment.

Some people complain in particular about the sexuality that arises from these platforms, like Victoria, a 27-year-old teacher in Lausanne. The sexual adventures she sought and experienced via the Tinder application after her breakup with her ex-partner almost all seemed “catastrophic” to her. “The sex often sucks and there’s no communication. For example, a guy came to my house, I tried to discuss what he liked and what I liked. In front of me, he was no longer willing to talk openly about it, even though he was being the hot guy through messages,” she gets annoyed.

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