How to integrate striptease into intimacy?

How to integrate striptease into intimacy?
How to integrate striptease into intimacy?

“In the month of April, don’t uncover yourself by a thread, in the month of May, do what you please!” What if the season was right for striptease? It must be said that the return of winter some time ago clearly pushed us to invest in a simple but effective technique for successful undressing: the onion technique, that is to say wearing several layers on oneself!

Nice tip, because we’re not going to lie, in the art of undressing, during the first attempts, we often find ourselves naked more quickly than the eventual song that put us in the mood – which is not a bad thing in itself, not everything in life has to last.

But then, from the bedroom to the stage (or rather the opposite), what place can striptease take in our relationships?

Playful, awkward, shared…

There is the playful striptease, that of teenage parties or fashionable adult evenings. revivalfor whom strip poker brings a breath of fresh air, and a more or less high level of concentration on cards, just like the temperature.

There is the clumsy striptease but which comes from the heart, like that of Kim Basinger in 9 1/2 weekserotic landmark of an entire generation, because it’s not all that serious, but who said sex had to be?

Of course, some people invest it professionally, and the evenings Chippendales keep the wind in their sails to have fun with friends. Unlike burlesque shows, which are more politicized and perhaps more inspiring in the diversity of bodies represented, oiled bodybuilders are the norm. These two worlds, however, have one thing in common, that of playing with the public, sometimes with looks and approaches – without forgetting the help requested (“unbutton me, it’s hot, and with your teeth”).

Undressing in front of and for the other can also be done in fashion show at home, by choosing music that suits us to make the task easier, to dare to take the time, to make us languish. Then there is the shared and simultaneous stripping of leaves, more common, like those times when we throw ourselves at each other, alternately discovering each other, being careful that no one gets too far ahead. There is also this simple strip which is done gradually during the exchange, without making it a performance.

The art of undressing, “but not right away, not too quickly…” as Juliette Gréco said. And then, meeting can be the art of revealing oneself gently, over the course of the meetings, like a striptease… of the soul.

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