She got up at 7 am, for what she thought was the day of her wedding. In the episode of “married at first glance” broadcast this Monday, May 5 on M 6 Monday, Marie learned that she was not going to marry a stranger as she had prepared. The very morning of their union planned in Gibraltar, the psychologist Estelle Dossin came to announce an unprecedented event in nine seasons: her future husband could no longer get married.
The man with whom the young woman had 83 % compatibility announced to the production the previous evening that he could no longer be present at the wedding “for personal reasons”, which were not explained. “Estelle wanted to preserve me at night and not tell me that the next morning,” said Marie to the Parisian. Even today, she knows nothing about this mystery man whose portrait has not been broadcast: “It is not worse. With hindsight, I tell myself that it is fate. »»
“The hour was running, no one was coming”
But before being fixed on its fate, the Varoise went through long minutes of stress in its hotel room in Gibraltar. “I was asked to be ready at 7:30 am so that I could go to makeup. I saw that the time turned and that no one was coming, so I stressed even more, ”she recalls.
But in reality, it had to be told that the ceremony would not take place. “I didn’t expect it at all and it hurt me a lot. For months I was fully, my friends and family had made the trip… ”
A few minutes after the announcement, Marie was joined by her mother, Bernadette, in her room: “Mom, it’s canceled! “Can we hear him throw, in tears. Production then leaves him the choice: to return to France immediately or not leave until the next day alongside his family. “I chose to take advantage with my loved ones. It was not at all that was planned, but it did me good to stay with them. »»
“What am I doing here?” »»
It was only the next day that she takes the back in the face: “When I woke up in the room, I was really lost. I no longer knew where I was, because I was not supposed to be in this room at all, I had to be in the wedding night. “Back in France, the cold shower continues for the 30 -year -old:” I said to myself: What am I doing here? I was confused, I who had given myself body and soul in this research … “
She quickly chose to turn to the psychologist of the show with which she returns to this painful episode. “I immediately called her to move forward, because I was fully raid at home. In fact, it was like mourning, I had sad phases, phases of anger, I was asking myself for questions about this husband. »»
Confidentiality of the program obliges, the young woman, who cashed as best he can, could not say anything in the professional framework. But this constrained silence was beneficial to him: “Not to talk about it at work allowed me to move forward. I no longer wanted to discuss it with my loved ones either, ”she sweeps.
Marie, La Fonteuse, chooses to leave
The question comes after a few weeks: would it accept to retry the adventure if there were new compatibility? “I had doubts, but quite quickly I thought it yes,” she says. You have to beat the iron as long as it is hot. So when Estelle Dossin comes to see her to “take stock” and her mother announces that she was found a compatibility, the future bride falls from the tree, but rushes.
“For me, marriage is important, so I wanted to go to the end. “No longer a question of looping in his head:” The first time was a draft. The one who believes in fate relies on the latter. “If I found this person in so shortly, it is because they are made for me. »»
Enough to take his ease back in Gibraltar: “I lived the second time with less stress, because I had the bearings. I found the hotel, the room … (Laughs) I only stressed the ceremonial morning. Without knowing if, this time, his pretender would be there …
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